{"id":9441,"date":"2013-12-28T14:56:30","date_gmt":"2013-12-28T12:56:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/?p=9441"},"modified":"2013-12-28T14:56:30","modified_gmt":"2013-12-28T12:56:30","slug":"yeni-yila-merhaba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/?p=9441","title":{"rendered":"YEN\u0130 YILA MERHABA"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>YEN\u0130 YILA MERHABA<\/p>\n

Nas\u0131lda geldi ge\u00e7ti bir y\u0131l daha.. Nedense bu y\u0131l bunu hi\u00e7 anlamad\u0131m, anlayamad\u0131m.. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131n\u0131n temposu belki de h\u0131zl\u0131 ge\u00e7ti .. Belki de mutlu ge\u00e7irmek i\u00e7in \u00e7abalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in ya da mutlu oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in h\u0131zla ge\u00e7ip gitti..<\/em><\/p>\n

Zaman \u00e7abuk ge\u00e7ti diye hay\u0131flanmak yerine, \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak ge\u00e7ti\u011fi i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrlerim \u00e7ok mesela.. Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m yerinde, sevdiklerimle bir y\u0131l\u0131 daha bitirdi\u011fim i\u00e7in de huzurluyum… Ama her bayram \u00f6ncesi oldu\u011fu gibi her yeni bir y\u0131l \u00f6ncesi de duygusalla\u015f\u0131yorum.. Klasik yenge\u00e7 huyu i\u015fte..<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c7o\u011funlukla durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum, tart\u0131yorum.. Art\u0131lar\u0131 eksileri, h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri sevin\u00e7leri, kazan\u00e7lar\u0131 kay\u0131plar\u0131… Ama en \u00f6nemlisi hayat\u0131m\u0131 hep temize \u00e7ekiyorum..<\/em><\/p>\n

Mesela zamans\u0131zl\u0131k nedeni ile erteledi\u011fim her \u015feyi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7iriyorum.. H\u00fcz\u00fcnlerimi azaltacak, mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7o\u011faltacak , en \u00f6nemlisi ya\u015flanmakla birlikte gelen eksileri yok etmek i\u00e7in; enerjimi co\u015fkumu ve ya\u015fama sevincimi art\u0131racak sebepler bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.. Hedefler belirliyorum art\u0131k hayat\u0131ma.. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki gibi karamsarl\u0131klar yerine, g\u00fc\u00e7 verecek hedefler.. Kazanamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, ba\u015faramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ya da yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ne varsa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp bunu yeni y\u0131la planlamaya ba\u015fl\u0131yorum.. Kocaman bir liste haz\u0131rl\u0131yorum, t\u00fcm bir y\u0131la s\u0131\u011facak kadar uzun..<\/em><\/p>\n

Her \u015feyin yenisi, ba\u015flamas\u0131 keyiflidir.. Keyifi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek ise bizim elimizdedir.. \u0130\u015fte yine bir y\u0131l daha.. Ve ben yeni umutlara gebeyim .. Her y\u0131l ile birlikte ya\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 farketsek de, kazan\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z kaybettiklerimizden fazla.. \u00d6zg\u00fcven, olgunluk, tecr\u00fcbe… Bundan sonras\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fczel ya\u015famak ad\u0131na daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131, yada i\u015f erke\u011fi olmad\u0131k m\u0131 ?<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201dBug\u00fcn ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenler d\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerimiz, yar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za geleceklerse bug\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekte olduklar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.\u201d Bir zamanlar bor\u00e7lar\u0131n alt\u0131nda ezildi\u011fim g\u00fcnlerimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp, bunlar\u0131 yok etmek i\u00e7in nas\u0131l \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum.. Ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015feyi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebildi\u011fim i\u00e7in kendimle nas\u0131l gurur duyuyorum. Bir zamanlar aileme, dostlar\u0131ma, arkada\u015flar\u0131ma maddi manevi y\u00fck iken, \u015fimdi ben hepsine yetebilecek g\u00fcce sahip oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutluyum.. Demek ki ne kadar karamsar olsak da azmin elinden hi\u00e7bir \u015fey kurtulmuyor, \u00e7abalay\u0131nca ba\u015far\u0131 da beraberinde geliyor.. O halde olumsuz her ne varsa bir yana b\u0131rak\u0131p; olumlu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, hayat\u0131m\u0131za hep g\u00fczellikleri \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rarak, y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fczdeki kocaman tebess\u00fcmle yeni y\u0131l\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layal\u0131m g\u00f6n\u00fclden, t\u00fcm \u00e7o\u015fkumuzla. Hadi hedefler belirleyin sizde hayat\u0131n\u0131zda… Kendimizle, gelece\u011fimizle, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla ve sevdiklerimizle ama en \u00f6nemlisi i\u015fimiz ile ilgili olarak en \u00e7ok yapmak istediklerimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp uygulamaya koyal\u0131m birer birer. Y\u0131lmadan, b\u0131kmadan, azimle ve sebatla. Ben sigara i\u00e7miyorum ama tiryaki iseniz sigaray\u0131 b\u0131rakmay\u0131 deneyin bu y\u0131l mesela.. \u0130\u015finizde bir \u00fcst kademeye ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in \u00e7abalay\u0131n, her kademe biraz daha ba\u015far\u0131, biraz daha para ve kaliteli bir ya\u015fam i\u00e7in ad\u0131m de\u011fil mi? Benim gibi \u00fczerinde durmay\u0131p boyuna keyifli yemekler yiyen arkada\u015flar\u0131m, hadi diyete ba\u015flayal\u0131m yeni y\u0131lda.. Belki bu defa ba\u015far\u0131r\u0131z belli mi olur Ben evime kavu\u015ftum, Allah size de nasip etsin, hadi para biriktirmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n azar azar.. Ba\u015flamak bitirmenin yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.. A\u015fk m\u0131 , ev mi, tatil mi, \u00e7ocuk mu, sa\u011fl\u0131k m\u0131, kariyer mi, yeni bir ya\u015fam i\u00e7in k\u00f6kten de\u011fi\u015fiklik mi ?. G\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fczden ne ge\u00e7iyor ? Hadi.. Ba\u015farmak i\u00e7in yeni bir y\u0131l geldi.. Kap\u0131da.. Onu keyifle kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131p, as\u0131lal\u0131m hayata.. \u0130nad\u0131na ya\u015fayal\u0131m yine, inad\u0131na.. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeden, ya\u015fama g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc yitirmeden, pes etmeden, her \u015feye ra\u011fmen g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek, hayata pozitif yakla\u015fararak.. Mutluluk ile daima.. Sizleri seviyorum ve mutlu y\u0131llar diliyorum\u00a0 <\/em><\/p>\n

Sule Akar\/ 2013 12 28<\/em>
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Nas\u0131lda geldi ge\u00e7ti bir y\u0131l daha.. Nedense bu y\u0131l bunu hi\u00e7 anlamad\u0131m, anlayamad\u0131m.. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131n\u0131n temposu belki de h\u0131zl\u0131 ge\u00e7ti .. Belki de mutlu ge\u00e7irmek i\u00e7in \u00e7abalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in ya da mutlu oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in h\u0131zla ge\u00e7ip gitti..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[195],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9441","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-denemelersuleakar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9441","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9441"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9441\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kafiye.net\/2011\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}